Why your best people — and most of society — won’t give you everything
I was once told that even your best employee will only ever give you 80% of what you want.
Not because they’re lazy.
Not because they don’t care.
But because their ultimate loyalty isn’t to you — it’s to themselves and their families.
And when you really think about it, that’s not betrayal. That’s just human nature.
Understanding the Limit
Once you see that truth, you stop managing on fantasy.
You stop expecting people to give you everything — because “everything” is reserved for their children, their spouses, their personal survival.
So you manage for the 80%.
That’s the ceiling you can realistically reach — and you’ll do far better as a leader when you understand that ceiling isn’t failure. It’s the truth.
The Wider Truth
And here’s where it gets interesting.
That 80% rule doesn’t just apply to work.
It applies to society.
80% of people can’t — or won’t — see how the world really works.
They don’t connect the dots. They don’t want to know where the decisions are really made, or why.
It’s easier to focus on the small things in front of them than the bigger, uglier truths behind the curtain.
The 20%
And then there are the 20%.
The ones who do see it.
They question. They analyse. They prepare.
They’re often dismissed as cynical, or overthinking, or “doom-mongers.”
But the 20% aren’t delusional — they’re awake.
And while it can feel isolating at times, it also gives them something valuable:
The chance to prepare for what’s coming while the rest of the world pretends it isn’t.
Final Thought
The 80% rule isn’t pessimism.
It’s freedom.
When you know what people will — and won’t — give you, you stop demanding more than they can give.
And you focus on making the most of what they do.
Hope isn’t what they promise you.
It’s how you carry on when they don’t deliver.
— Dave Carrera